I always struggle with how to tell someone I am upset with something they have done. Sometimes I try to let it go, tell myself it wasn't a big deal. But then the same incident (or something similar) will happen again with the same person. And since I never said it bothered me I know it is partly my fault. But still I don't say anything.
I was going to post a for instance story but I don't think it is right, it is just me complaining. But I honeslty don't know how to talk to someone, in a non-confrontational way, if they are not a close friend about something they have done that is bothering me. If it is small I feel like I should let it go, but on the other hand if it bothers me I can't expect it to stop unless I find a way to talk about it.
Okay, so this is still a venting post. But if you have ways that you approach people please share them with me. I want to be able to stop things that bother me from happening but I am always afraid that I will offend someone, or be told that I am blowing things out of proportion. I don't know why I feel this way, most of the time when I vent to Jon he agrees that I have the right to be irritated.
Okay, I am done whining. If you made it this far, thanks for reading!